Andrea’s Weblog

Yep, still here. Still waiting. I’m monitoring every little pang,
twitch, or itch as if it could turn into labor. I’ve scanned websites,
memorizing the first signs of labor, which seems to be quite useless
since it’s different for each woman.

It’s funny how people always ask “when are you due?” It’s always a
future event. There is no guidance for those of us who go beyond our
due date. Yesterday, I left a couple cashiers speechless when I told
them my due date was the day before. It’s just hard to comprehend going
beyond a due date.

All of the baby books stop at week 40 without any warning that it could
go on longer. No wonder I’m swinging between emotional extremes,
ranging from excitement to frustration. Judging from the sympathetic
looks I’ve been receiving, I’m also starting to look like someone who
is ready to burst.

I know, I know what about the numbers I posted that show the strong
odds for going beyond a due date? I guess I was hoping that since Frank
was born a month early and all 3 kids on my side of the family were
born on-time that we had genetics on our side. Pah!

I was thinking of starting up a post-due date support group, but who
would want to chat with a bunch of grumpy women? Instead I think I’ll
spend my time straightening the house, doing my yoga, walking up and
down the street and taking Frank to lunch. I’m sure in a few days, I’ll
be glad I had this time to myself because it’ll be another 18 years
before I can be so selfish.

I’ll keep you posted!